Am I really Studying?

I would say that the answer is 'No'. Reason being pretty darn obvious after all, distraction by the modern internet. (Although, it facilitates B2B business exchanges)

It's like as the days wear on to the final exams, (I tend to lose myself online just trying to escape my 'boring' study routine. It's been the same all this time just that I am not motivated to study right now.

Playing with Josh and Phoebe (who came visiting over the weekends), UNO! Well, technically, winning or losing does not really matter to me however, it seems that they both just wanna win me again. Sheesh.

Why does Youtube videos get uploaded so quickly anyway?

 

After watching the part on Kitty's FB link. I decided to post the 3rd part of the series as I find it much better to explain anything.

All I can say is that 'F**king, inhumane and B**tard of a son should really, really just rot in hell or something' (If the story is real since these things can be acted out). The gist is just that about an unfilial son who actually just refuses to acknowledge his OWN MOTHER. Holy shit.

To actually say hurtful things along the lines of:

• "She's not my mother!"
• "It's embarrassing to have a mother this ugly!" 

Unbelievable really!! Who the hell is he? God?? Even God preaches on loving your parents.

Back to the main point of why I actually posted this part. What struck a cord here was this whole episode dealing with the emotional drama and breakdown of the sister which I felt should be spoken about. 

There are a few major areas I wish to highlight revolves around:

1. The Mother (She was the partial -3/4 cause of how things turn out)
2. The Sister

Mother

Even after all that has happened, she still insists on aiding her son. Not that I am saying this is wrong however, does her son come to his senses? NO! That is the whole point. Even she admits that she spoils her son in the video. 

I have seen the damage of being 'over-pampered' by parents, especially mothers and sons. On what basis am I saying this? Well, I have seen it personally in my family as well. Too literally. 

Well, what wrong with that? Oh nothing, except that the extent of it was that my mother expects her ageing mother to look after my brother when crossing the road. Let's replay the best irony - my brother's at least 16 then, should he not be the ONE looking after our grandmother? See?

Being too pampered, the boys lose their independence and just become 'mummy's boy'. What the hell? Are they going to rely on women when they grow up? Mummy's not going to be around forever though.

What I cannot forgive any women (not even my mother or grandmother) for saying is 他不同(He's different). I am not even kidding. It's like the ultimate condemnation in any argument.I mean, here I am making a valid point and there you go saying, 'Oh, that's because you are different', always makes my blood boil.

What's so 'different' about our brothers? The fact that they are guys? That girls never amount to anything in your standards? Come on, Daughters are the one suffering all the time because of such thinking. It's stupid to just say that...

What irks me about this women is that she has such a 老古董 thinking that "No matter what, daughters are not important. Sons are." I mean come on, this is the modern age now abolish this thinking please. Daughters are definitely more caring despite being 'harshly' treated. 

If sons are so great, then why the hell was there this drama in the first place?

To be honest, I can just say the ancient people sometimes bring great misery upon themselves by boycotting the 'useless' daughter and praising the 'filial' son. See what happens if this were in the 古代 era. I say so 活该 for bias practice.

Daughter/Sister

Well, I think most sisters can come up being tough and sarcastic from time to time however, they truly end up caring for all members in their family but they never ever say it. After all, Actions speak louder then words.

I relate to the sister in this situation more about the biased and 'blindness' of their mother. I mean come on, the daughter was the one being independent and caring for their mother and never rejecting her mother's appearance whist trying to wake her brother up. I applaud her.

But once again, stupid mother just keeps defending her son much to her daughter's sadness and anger. Of course this situation would also drive me insane with tears by the end of the day.

I will believe that most of us girls have felt this way (not that dramatic) with our parents for siding with our siblings even though we did alot more then what our siblings did. And so by the end of the day, most of us just leave our words unspoken and clam up resulting in introverted but good girls. LOLS.

The mother is seriously blinded to such an extent that she simply cannot see her daughter's love for her. What do we do in such a situation? Stupid hormones and motherly instincts... making us care and cry for others so easily. Lols.

My personal example is that I was discussing with my mum about my brother doing part time work. I was all for him working under other people but my mum was against it. her reason?

Mum: You know about your brother's condition. Working outside will only make things worse since he cannot handle the stress and his hands will keep shaking. (I admit that it can happen but we never now until we try at least, right?)

Me: All he does here (office) is just simple manual chores and then taking medicine before resting. How is that even working?

Mum: At least here I can keep an eye on him what. You know he's 'different'. So cannot. (Not in terms of gender inequality but in terms of his physical and mental well being)

Me: (Gets really annoyed by the phrase) Whatever... (I have to suffer then what)

Summary:

Father + Daughter = Independent Daddy's Girl

Mother + Son = Clingy Mummy's Boy

Mother + Son + Daughter - Father = One Hell of a Drama*

Father + Mother + Son + Daughter = One Happy Family!!*

Equations may vary in this case. I suck in Maths so I leave it like this.

Finally the equations fit. Sheesh. Cannot afford to take away the Father or all hell breaks loose.

Therefore, my analysis is complete! LOLS. I am being so bias and judgemental against the Mother's thinking and sister's actions.