Never judge a book by it's cover...
Toyota= Tou yu Da (Head gets big) in Chinese was started by Da Jie Zhang Meng and I am still laughing about it.
Let's see, there's nothing much today except for the fact that I have become a free counselor. I really should consider this as another job for my future. I am really not qualified at all-even more so when I am utterly ignorant on a lot of topics including relationships, especially love relationships.
All I can say is that "It is your choice and so, live with it." Another quote I see true is ,"Time never heals wounds, it just teaches us to live with the pain." Simply put,pick up the shattered pieces of your life and move on if you will.
I am not being mean or negative, rather, I encourage peers and friends to look on the bright side- because I believe in "What's yours will be yours".
Wounds will take awhile to heal and therefore, in this crucial period,it is best to seek comfort and joy in those whom you trust.
I believe Relationships to be a cocoon. It will survive through tough times or it will break apart. But in the end of the day, the outcome is till the same- Both types will produce a beautiful butterfly. The key difference here is the resilience of the butterfly to survive.
Nuff said about relationships conquering through thick and thin. Such cases are really rare and worthy of my respect.
Should the butterfly whose cocoon stage was to break apart and yet, remain optimistic and values this as a lesson to survive, then, it will naturally emerge stronger and ready to face new challenges. However, if the butterfly is defeated and never recovers from the break-up, then sad to say, it will die.
The question I ask is therefore this: What type of butterfly are you when it's all over?
Naturally, friends and families will rally and support you in this period. Another bonus, you can finally sort out fair weather friends and true friends. Although, like what the 'Joy Luck Club' suggests, some advices dished out by peers or counsellor is out to 'poison' your mind namely because,
1) They have no experience in the issue and tend to refer to movies to coach you
2) They have other intentions (Ie, Jealousy, Revenge)
3) They just listen to you for $$.
It's up to you to pick wisely who you turn to for sage advice but honestly, if you can make the decision such as falling in love then you also will be able to figure out who to turn to in the end. Be warned that, as my title goes, 'Never judge a book by it's cover' as per above reasons.
PS: If your heart is really weeping after the break-up then there is no doubt that you love him deeper then you really admit it though. (Winks) Consider another chance (Prove your efforts to be sincere) and make it work.
Don't ask me why I know so much, please, let's just say I tend to be more knowledgeable then I thought.
Let's see, there's nothing much today except for the fact that I have become a free counselor. I really should consider this as another job for my future. I am really not qualified at all-even more so when I am utterly ignorant on a lot of topics including relationships, especially love relationships.
All I can say is that "It is your choice and so, live with it." Another quote I see true is ,"Time never heals wounds, it just teaches us to live with the pain." Simply put,pick up the shattered pieces of your life and move on if you will.
I am not being mean or negative, rather, I encourage peers and friends to look on the bright side- because I believe in "What's yours will be yours".
Wounds will take awhile to heal and therefore, in this crucial period,it is best to seek comfort and joy in those whom you trust.
I believe Relationships to be a cocoon. It will survive through tough times or it will break apart. But in the end of the day, the outcome is till the same- Both types will produce a beautiful butterfly. The key difference here is the resilience of the butterfly to survive.
Nuff said about relationships conquering through thick and thin. Such cases are really rare and worthy of my respect.
Should the butterfly whose cocoon stage was to break apart and yet, remain optimistic and values this as a lesson to survive, then, it will naturally emerge stronger and ready to face new challenges. However, if the butterfly is defeated and never recovers from the break-up, then sad to say, it will die.
The question I ask is therefore this: What type of butterfly are you when it's all over?
Naturally, friends and families will rally and support you in this period. Another bonus, you can finally sort out fair weather friends and true friends. Although, like what the 'Joy Luck Club' suggests, some advices dished out by peers or counsellor is out to 'poison' your mind namely because,
1) They have no experience in the issue and tend to refer to movies to coach you
2) They have other intentions (Ie, Jealousy, Revenge)
3) They just listen to you for $$.
It's up to you to pick wisely who you turn to for sage advice but honestly, if you can make the decision such as falling in love then you also will be able to figure out who to turn to in the end. Be warned that, as my title goes, 'Never judge a book by it's cover' as per above reasons.
PS: If your heart is really weeping after the break-up then there is no doubt that you love him deeper then you really admit it though. (Winks) Consider another chance (Prove your efforts to be sincere) and make it work.
Don't ask me why I know so much, please, let's just say I tend to be more knowledgeable then I thought.
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